Unpacking Christmas: The Gift

Unpacking Christmas The Gift

We entered the church foyer and beheld the grandeur of the towering tree adorned with red and golden hues. As is my custom, I paused to capture some of its beauty with my camera phone.

As I was taking the picture, Joshua paused with me and looked at the presents under the tree. I knew the presents were really empty boxes but his three-year-old perspective did not,”Are those presents for Jesus? When’s he going to open his presents?” he asked. His child-like faith that Jesus would come and open His presents for His birthday melted my heart. I stooped down to explain, “Those boxes are empty and only for decoration. Jesus is the Present, buddy. He came so that we could live in heaven with God.”

I am not sure if my explanation was sufficient, but I repeated, “Jesus is the Present.”

Jesus is The Gift, dear friends.

This Christmas as we bustle to complete shopping lists, bake seasonal dishes, and finish tying bows on presents, The Gift and The Giver of all good things deserves to reign supreme in our hearts and minds.

With each moment of this Christmas: baking cookies, sharing presents, singing carols, looking at Christmas lights,  and worshiping with a body of believers no act of love falls to the ground even if the events themselves do because the Holy Seed of Israel has come and conquered death.

I haven’t mastered the art of Christmas traditions in our family. We have plenty of December traditions:

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Christmas Day presents a new opportunity for making traditions this year as it  will be the first year that we wake up in our house on Christmas morning before traveling to family celebrations in a neighboring state. However, The Gift, is the One that I want to honor and recognize this Christmas no matter how the events of the actual day unfold.

Merry Christmas dear readers! You are such a blessing to my heart. I find such peace and joy in writing in this little corner of the internet. I will meet you here after King Jesus’ Birthday. May God bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and be gracious to you this Christmas season. Please take a few minutes to watch  the video link (click here if viewing in a reader) of children reciting the Christmas story; it will serve as our final reminder of Unpacking Christmas 2013.

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Why Santa Doesn’t Deliever Presents to our House

I remember defending his existence in fourth grade, then finding out I was wrong soon thereafter. A man I had never met in the flesh, but looked forward to his coming on December 25th every year.

Santa Claus.

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The good-will ambassador for many girls and boys across the world is truthfully presented as a character along with Charlotte, Wilbur, Rudolph, and any other fictional characters we encounter in the children’s literature in our home.

As far as I know we are the only people in our family who do not teach our children to believe in Santa Claus. We have not been ridiculed for our choices, but I want to lay out my reasons here to prompt your thinking on the matter. Truth is too important to flippantly follow the status quo, and therefore, I want to give you some meaty measures to add to your milk and cookies for Santa this year.

First, there are  attributes we assign to Santa that are only manifested in God: omniscience and omnipotence.

Omniscience, means that one is all-knowing.  The holiday song, Santa Clause is Coming to Town, goes, “He knows when you are sleeping, he knows when your awake, he knows if you’ve been bad or good. So be good for goodness sake.” 

Only God knowns our thoughts and ways, our lying down and waking up.  He judges the thoughts and attitudes of our hearts like no one else can.  Omniscience belongs to God in His triune state alone.

Omnipotence, or unlimited power, is attributed to the man who can fly around the world in one night, fit down chimneys or pass through locked doors, and magically provide your heart’s desire one day every year.

Unlimited power is only found in God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.

Second, and equally important, Christmas is a religious holiday about the birth of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. This Christian holiday has been secularized so that it is more palatable to non-Christian’s worldwide. Yes, there is an atheistic movement to quiet or extinguish the celebration, but Christmas is largely a money-making secularized holiday.

We have run the risk of making Christmas more about ourselves than the King born in a manger. A jolly old man bringing us more material presents is not the presence that should be celebrated this time of year.

Please understand that I genuinely love Christmas movies, music, and decorations. You will find me glued to Hallmark on many occasions during the Christmas season. Honestly, one of my favorite creations of my artistic mother is a two foot Santa and Mrs. Claus that she painted in ceramics. However, I have chosen to make Santa a fictional character in limited books and movies for my children so that they will not miss the message of Christmas found in the nativity and Christ-centered books on our shelves.

Growing up, my parents followed the three gift rule like many other parents I know. They gave my sister and I three gifts each Christmas just as the wisemen presented to the Christ-child. (Albeit there could be ten pieces to the “one” gift.)

My mom and I.

However, this post by Ann challenged my perspective on even this practice. Jesus is the gift and the three gifts were given to Him on His birthday not the opposite. What do we give Jesus on His birthday?

That is why we, along with multitudes of others, choose to give to Gospel for Asia, Samaritan’s Purse, Operation Christmas Child, World Vision, and Compassion International at Christmas and throughout the year. In serving the poor, needy, orphaned, and unreached, we are presenting sacrificial thank offerings to God and His Son, Jesus at the celebration of His birth.

Does this mean that we cannot exchange gifts with others? I would say no. To show our love and appreciation for each other as an extension of the gift of Christ Jesus in our life is a blessed privilege. Must we exchange gifts to celebrate Christmas? Likewise no.

We have had the Kneeling Santa figurine since a Christmas Wedding Shower 10 years ago. As I reflect upon its meaning now,  I am unsettled in my spirit. Yes, Santa is bowed worshiping the New Born King, but this even implies that Santa preceded Christ. The true “Santa” was actually St. Nicholas who lived after Christ and gave to the poor in the name of Jesus.

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The face of the Father of Christmas may indeed be merry and bright, but it is not found at the North Pole. Conversely, He chose the lowly and humble stable to make his glory known. Then brought forth wisemen from across the earth and angels soaring in the sky to announce His coming and celebrate His Son, the gift of Christmas. He brought His Messenger in this way so that the heart of every boy and girl could know the favor of their Creator through Christ the King.

However you choose to celebrate Christmas in your home, I hope that you will submit these practices to God and seek His will. I pray that you will make Christ predominate in your hearts, homes, and heritage this Christmas and each one to come.

Raise the Risk Challenge:

  • Read Ann’s post referenced above here.
  • Consider who the face of Christmas really is in your family and make any necessary changes.
  • Give a gift to Jesus by sponsoring a child locally or either here, here, or here.

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